After much debate and head banging over choosing the right chat system, we have decided witcheschat.com to be the most fitting.
They gave us the green light on adding it in, so say goodbye to the Flash chat system. Jellybean you shall NOT WIN! Grr.

If you are not familiar with the site heres a good time to get familiar with it:
http://www.witcheschat.com/index.phpWe worked out a deal were we shall both promote each other, so this is a great deal for both websites, we both have alot to offer & share!
Before we add it in please take the time to read the chat rules of the road so you all know ahead of time what is ok & not ok, they have a bot that can sense you so keep that in mind:
witcheschat Chat Room Etiquette:
IdlingFeel free to stay in the chat room as long as you please. This is called "idling" and is frowned upon in many chat rooms, but is welcome in Witches Chat. A lot of people make the internet their home and social life. Other people may connect to the chat room with mobile phones and stay connected for days or weeks. This is fine.
Color and decorative textBoth encouraged and welcome. If you have creative knack and technical know-how to chat in the room using elaborate color and special ascii sets, then please feel free to use it. Some chat rooms discourage colorful text because it does not translate well on some older chat clients, however the Witches Chat room understands them just fine.
Age restrictionsThe pursuit of answers and communion with people is not restricted to any particular age group. Although most of the people chatting in Witches Chat will be over 18, it is not uncommon to see younger people in the chat room. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect, and young people are no exception. In no circumstances may you use the chat rooms to start or continue sexually suggestive dialogue with any member under the age of consent (whichever age is highest between any geographic region where the hypothetical parties are located).
(as for us bookofshadowsandlight has a 18 only policy)
Trolling
There are some people that spend considerable effort making other people unhappy, challenging their beliefs, and using falicies to put people down. This is unacceptable in Witches Chat.
SpammingIf you have a web site that is relevant to Witches Chat and the subject matter we chat about, then you are encouraged to share it with us. Posting URLs in the room is fine, as long as it's relevant to the conversation or the room, and it isn't happening every 5 minutes. It is in bad taste to advertise other chat rooms–please don't.
Bad languageNot suggested. Vassago, the room bot, keeps a count of the number of "bad words" used in the chat room, and he has been known to take action if that count is excessive.
Sharing spells and ritualsWhile some Pagan chat rooms prefer you to avoid sharing your spells, incantations, potions, rituals, and methods, this chat room will not impose such limitations.
Private messagingDo as you please, but be aware that some people take offense to being sent private messages without first asking for permission to do so. Likewise, if you receive private messages from people that you do not desire to receive, you have the option of ignoring them.
Religion bashingPutting anyone down is not an attractive quality, regardless of the reason why. Remember the Wiccan Rede: An Ye Harm None, Do As Ye Will
FightingPlease don't fight with other people in the chat room. It turns everyone off and dilutes the good vibe of the room. Sometimes it's hard to convey emotion or real meaning in chat, and so sometimes things are misunderstood. If that happens, forgive people, give them the benefit of the doubt, and let it go. Fights will not be allowed to go on. We have several web sites that tap into Witches Chat, and they expect the room to be a place that their visitors can chat in peace. Please help us strive for that ideal.
Witches Chat used as a dating/flirting/pickup-roomThere are plenty of chat rooms that specialize in dating, flirting, and meeting up. Witches Chat is not one of them.
Sexualizing the chat roomKeep the discussion of sex out of the chat room. If you need to, take the conversation to private chat. In no circumstances may you use the chat rooms to start or continue sexually suggestive dialogue with any member under the age of consent (whichever age is highest between any geographic region where the hypothetical parties are located).
Debate about Wicca and PaganismWitches Chat is not a room to debate the validity of Wicca, Paganism, spirituality, religion, faith, psionics, or Witches. If you question our beliefs, faith, or Goddess and God, please do not join the chat.
Atheists and AgnosticsDo not inject, hint, or suggest that our religion or any element of it is not valid. 99 percent of all bans are directed at Atheists and Agnostics. If you do not believe in a diety, PLEASE DO NOT ENTER. Witches Chat is not a democracy. In Witches Chat, Witches rule. Period.
DrugsNo. Just no.